The Northeast Emergency Food Program (NEFP) needs help to chase away hunger from 600 local families monthly. Financial contributions are welcome. So are your volunteer time, food donations and nickels from New Seasons’ Bag It Forward program.

That latter – the donation of 5 cents for each paper bag a customer declines – is at the 33rd Avenue New Seasons. Last quarter NEFP received $1,000.

Volunteers are especially needed to help clients select groceries from nonprofit’s shelves at Luther Memorial Lutheran Church, 4800 N.E. 72nd Ave. Food donations may be delivered there Tuesdays, Thursdays and Saturdays between 10 a.m. and 12:30 p.m.

For details about the NEFP and/or to volunteer, call 503.284.5470 or visit the Ecumenical Ministries website.

By Kathy Crabtree

Editor’s note: Although Oregon replaced its “Things look different here” slogan in 2004, recent transplant Kathy Crabtree proves it still rings true. Watch for her impressions of her new home in this and future CNews columns.

Having recently moved to Portland from the Midwest, I enjoy a spectator’s view of current Northwest trends. The latest colors, styles and fashion statements – for example, how you wear your baby – can be observed while sipping a latte at any coffee shop on Alberta Street.

The baby-wearing trend fascinates this transplant. Not only does there appear to be a wide selection of baby-wearing apparatus – backpacks, wraps or slings– but one also has a choice in baby accessorizing: front or rear views.

Then there is an additional choice of wearing your baby facing inward or outward. From my unofficial survey, it appears mothers have a tendency to wear their babies in front with the babies facing inward, at least until they are somewhat older. Fathers, on the other hand, wear the children on their backs facing outward. Analyzing this trend one could conclude that mothers tend to keep close eyes on their offspring; whereas, fathers appear more confident the babies won’t try to escape while they aren’t looking.

I’ve also become aware of multiple ways to travel on a bicycle with your child. Many bikes have child seats behind the peddlers’ seats – much like I’ve seen used in the Midwest. In my new neighborhood, I have witnessed several very creative contraptions.

One style has a basket in front with the baby facing the driver. Another has an older child pedaling a connected tire and frame. My favorite, though, is the front-loaded, cart-like equipment complete with helmeted kid, groceries and the family dog.

These sights to homegrown Portlanders are not uncommon, and more seasoned transplants have become assimilated to the culture. Those of us new to the area, however, often have to take some time to minimize the effect of the differences.

For instance, in pondering the baby-wearing phenomenon, I wonder if how one was worn will influence one’s outlook on life later on. Will those front-loaded, forward-facing babies be in the forefront of the future – looking ahead and anticipating new directions and paths? Will those backpack babies value their past and where they have come to bring a historical perspective to the future?

My best guess is they will probably grow into secure and confident adults, having spent so much time cuddled close to those who love them the most.

An old proverb says you can ‘t really understand another person ‘s experience until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes. Concordia University associate professor of social work Julie Dodge, Ph.D., studies the application of this proverb to the modern world in the field of cultural empathy.

“Every day in the news we hear another story of violence that outrages us. It’s easy to pick a side,” she said. “It is much harder to actually listen to the stories of people who may face unique challenges in our society. Too often, we rush to blame.”

In her anticipated iBook, titled “‘But I Would ‘t Do That!’ Teaching Cultural Empathy,” Dodge suggests we often fail in our work with people of different backgrounds because we lack cultural empathy. As a society, especially within our health and human service professions, we still struggle to understand why another person behaves differently than we would.

Cultural empathy is defined as the ability to consider the thoughts or perspectives and feelings of another person given their cultural background – values, experiences, beliefs – and to communicate this understanding effectively.

Brain research shows we are all capable of expressing empathy; however, we have to choose to activate those empathy pathways in our brains. So how can we do this?

“One way is to stop, listen, reflect and ask for clarification – especially if you hear something with which you disagree,” Dodge said. “Listening to another person ‘s story, instead of arguing another perspective helps build understanding of why a person thinks and feels the way they do. And that results in a better understanding of differences.”

Larn more about cultural empathy.

Learn more about Concordia University’s College of Health and Human Services.

Contributed by Concordia University College of Health & Human Services.